[Kindle] Stuff A Memoir of Death and Life

Ught was wrong Almost the last thing he said to her was I don t know but I think t s terminal I mmediately wanted to record my father s last words my mother and I were visiting him n hospital he was obviously terribly Accidental Commando ill andn much pain My mother s dementia prevented her taking n what was happening she knew but didn t know As we sat there a nurse arrived with a morphine pump to be set up our presence stopped her n her tracks and The Adventurer's Bride in all kindness spouted forth about howmportant Moto ondoso stabile e altri racconti it was that we talked and shared this time together and much else that was Politically Correct for the conscientious and empathic nurse She said she would come back to set up the morphine pumpt was that All About Me important that we had this time together Mum had nodea what was happening the penny dropped for me that Dad was Son of the Sheriff (Delta Justice, in the terminal phase of hisllness the liver cancer diagnosis confirmed the day before Dad exhausted but alert to the end opened his eyes took the oxygen mask off his face and said uite clearly glaring at the back of the departing nurse Don t they piss you off And that was that the next time I saw him he had diedThe structure of Stuff s akin to Jerome K Jerome s Idle Thoughts of an Idle Fellow a chapter title heralds a theme where threads ntroduced throughout the book are woven Son of the Sheriff into their relationship to this theme As the dust cover saidt s a story of adoption and the threads and themes advertise the continuity of life life that doesn t need religion to explain or justify our existence Considering Rowson s humanist leanings I am thinking that n some way Stuff s *A Book For Or s humanist leanings I am thinking that n some way Stuff s *A Book For Or for or Everyman and parallels his acknowledgement It was a wonderful example of the therapeutic power of anecdote As Coupland and Warhol capture the book that we have nside us The Anarchist Roots of Geography: Toward Spatial Emancipation is autobiographical anecdotes that have shaped usnto who we are that come n all the shades of human virtues and vices One day I will write something longer than a Haiku Stuff Everybodyhas their own anecdote liferecalled before deathCJHD30 May E past The result s a funny thought provoking and ultimately moving meditation on families life love disease and the existentialist horrors of clearing out the atti. ,


Stuff A Memoir of Death and Life

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I couldn t find a source for the saying Everybody has a book n them though I did find a Christopher Hitchens uote Everybody does have a book April in Bloom in them butn most cases that s where Let It Snow it should stay Interestingly my source of uotesn Goodreads did list seven for Everybody has a book n them but none actually use those words but nstead are brief stories beginning Everybody has a gripping stranger Amorous Liaisons (Harlequin Blaze, in their lives Douglas Coupland Everybody has their own America Andy Warhol and variations of the themeFortunately Martin Rowson didn t heed the Hitchens plea and has written a book that feels asf t has come from within me The dust cover said he weaves together dreams memories family anecdotes and gossip jokes parental advice history smells sounds and sights to recreate the lives of his parents their times and his and the lives of his other parents the one who died when he was ten the one he didn t know who died when he was n his thirties and the last
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who maybe existed at all Stuff s part memoir part reminiscence but mostly a funny thought provoking and ultimately moving meditation on families life love disease death grief and memory and the existential horrors of clearing out the attic Time and again my recall was prompted by something I could have substituted nto the Rowson narrative In effect Rowson has written the book that I have HOW TO PLOT ROMANCE FICTION: KEEP YOUR PANTS ON! HOW TO OUTLINE A ROMANCE NOVEL WHEN YOU ARE AN INTUITIVE WRITER inside me *Fornstance The name Rowson has been a burden to me for most of my life It s *instance The name Rowson has been a burden to me for most of my life It s that I resent Amorous Liaisons (Harlequin Blaze, it or don t liket or am embarrassed by Argentinian Playboy, Unexpected Love-Child (Harlequin Presents Extra, it liket was Hitler or Twatbottom or something like that In fact I think Angels Do Have Wings it s a rather good name slightly out of the ordinary The problems entirely practical To put the record straight the first syllable rhymes with crow not with cow It might seem to you to be no big thing and that I m making too much of a fuss about this but for nearly five decades I ve winced nside whenever people get that the wrong way round and I have to make an nstant judgement call on whether I politely correct them or let t go and. A few months after two of his parents had died Martin Rowson had a dream about the house he grew up n which was crammed with tons and tons of stuff both physical an. Prepare myself for the next time the error now compounded beyond reach my whole life seems compounded beyond reach My whole life seems have been characterised by the same judgement call correcting with a my name Christmas Cowboy Kisses: A Family for Christmas\A Christmas Miracle\Christmas with Her Cowboy is like the alphabet C comes before D accompanied with a cringe for drawing attention to a flawn their perfection or to forever hold my peaceThere are so many hooks n this Stuff George Bernard Shaw s The Doctor s Dilemma kicks off the penultimate chapter entitled The *Doctor s Plot the Shaw connection probably representing the most prized *s Plot the Shaw connection probably representing the most prized that I nherited via my father from my maternal grandfather the 1934 Constable publication of Prefaces by Bernard Shaw I have thought this the most profound book I have ever read and was pleasantly reminded by Google that I had written a review when I finished reading Monster Trucks Hair in a Can it when I wasn a Haiku writing phaseDecisive thinkingElouent writing historyin the makingJust as I think the preface to The Doctor s Dilemma should be reuired reading for medical students about to become medical practitioners so I think Rowson s The Doctor s Plot should also be reuired reading for doctors and lawyers alike The year my parents died when we were all uite drunk I suggested to colleagues of Rowson s barrister wife that all n all lawyers had done good for society n general than doctors had ever done Lawyers know that they re the scum of the earth whereas doctors think that they re God One can feel Shaw s rapier Danger on the Mountain is out and ready to cut God down to sizeI think I bought Stuff on a whim attracted by the dust coverllustration the title and the publisher s description on the nside of the dust cover Most ntriguing was the In anderen Herzen illustration whichs loaded with meaning by the time the end s reached from the CCCP clock on the back to the partially obscured sign Waitem which n the final chapter Triumph of the Optimists: 101 Years of Global Investment Returns is revealed to be a Maori word Waitemata the name of the harbour that dominated my growing up And then there was As he was getting dressed to gonto hospital the morning he died my step mother asked him what he tho. D emotional In this book Rowson delves nto all that 'stuff'; weaving together dreams family anecdotes and gossip jokes advice history smells sounds and sights of th. ,
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